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December 31, 2007

2007 In Review ...

Where ever you are and what ever you are doing I hope you have a very happy and peaceful New Year

December 30, 2007

Things We Learned Today ...

  • Neither of us like Pizza Hut stuffed crust pizzas…
  • Halender : noun, K’s new word for a coat hanger…
  • Gin and fizzy water isn’t nice. In her defence K said, “Well it said water and I thought it was like tonic water - maybe if it had some lemon in it ?”…

December 29, 2007

Cult of the Celebrity

“I’m sick of these celebrities living their life out in the open. Why would you do that? Fuck the makers of this show! The Victorian freak show never went away. Now it’s called Big Brother or The X-Factor. We wheel out the bewildered to be sniggered at by multi-millionaires. Fuck you for watching this at home! Shame on you and shame on me!”

So said Ricky Gervais on Extras the other night.

Why do we need to sit and watch people famous and ordinary flounder around on television night after night ? Why do we find the need to popularise and reward them ?

In July of this year Gordon Brown made the following statement at Westminster whilst launching his book, “Ordinary Heroes”,

PM targets unsung heroes in revamp of honours - Scotland on Sunday

“In this spirit of recognising and celebrating service to local communities and our whole country, it is right that we look at how our honours system can recognise those in our emergency services and members of the public who showed such bravery and heroism in the face of the recent terrorist attacks, and those who have worked in the last few weeks far beyond the call of duty in the recent floods.”

Tim Coulson went to the help of those caught up in 7/7. He smashed his way into a bombed Tube carriage from another train adjacent to it in the tunnel and gave first aid to the injured and dying. One man, whose body had been severed at the waist by the blast, died in his arms.

Nominated by his wife for an award The Cabinet Office advised her that, “honours are awarded to people for meritorious service over a sustained period and not specifically for saving someone’s life”.

In contrast the heads of Transport for London and the London Underground received CBEs; senior representatives of the police, ambulance service and Salvation Army got OBEs, and MBEs for those, such as the supervisor at Russell Square Tube station, who helped injured passengers.

Speaking to The Sunday Times Coulson said :

Medal snub for civilian 7/7 heroes - Times Online

“I saw things I had never seen in my life before, people in pieces and others who were dying.” He began tending to the wounded, including putting a tourniquet on one man’s leg, before finding a man trapped in a crater where the floor of the carriage had been.

Unable to free him, Coulson climbed out of the carriage and attempted to grasp the man from below, at which point he realised that his lower body had been severed.

Lowering the man to the floor, Coulson held him and said a prayer as he died in his arms.

Then he went to the aid of a woman who was slumped against the tunnel wall having been blown out of the train by the blast.

He tended to her wounds and comforted her for more than an hour until help arrived from the emergency services.

In a statement she provided to the Cabinet Office, the woman, whose identity is being withheld by The Sunday Times to protect her privacy, said: “It takes an instinct that the majority of us don’t possess to throw yourself into potential danger rather than the instinct for self-preservation.

“It is hard to put into words the kind of gratitude I feel towards Tim. He is indeed the bravest person I’ve known and I feel deserves the recognition of his bravery.”

Gervais is right. It’s the quiet people we pass in the streets who, in one terrible moment, do more than any celebrity or attention seeker could ever comprehend we need to celebrate and reward. The fact that this never happened and that this promise was broken should shame this Prime Minister, this Government and us all today.

December 28, 2007

Blogroll of the Fallen ...

This is the time of year for resolutions and looking back so here’s a review of my blogroll and those who seem to have fallen by the wayside :

  • Casper made it to July but the call of the sun and the sound of leather on willow seem to have sounded a death knell for his blogging…
  • Troozers made it to September but got lost in his new rugby shirt… ***UPDATE*** The Kilt has been lifted ! head over to Troozers for some fine geekery !
  • Diamond started with great news of Rocky but went walking with the new arrival and never came back…
  • Megnut hung up her chef’s whites when her son arrived - I’m sure one day she will be back…

December 27, 2007

Sleek, Slim and Wireless ...

It’s been a while since I had a new gadget but that all changed this Christmas.

No longer do I need to turn on my desktop or laptop to read my email. The one line display on my 1GB MP3 player is no longer a problem when I need to track down that missing podcast.

Thanks to K I am now the owner of an Apple Ipod Touch. With 16GB of disk space I don’t need to scrunch files down as small as possible to fit them on nor do I need to wonder just what to take with me anymore as I can carry around a lot more albums.

The best part for me is the management of podcasts which are all neatly filed away with the episode information available to view. No more struggling to find that copy of From Our Own Correspondent by flicking from one podcast to another watching the voltage drop from my AAA battery like Ken Mattingly in Apollo 13.

If you have one of these new for Christmas and are still struggling to setup access to your WEP protected WiFi network the trick seems to be to add a “$” before the WEP key. For some reason the Ipod expects that as an undocumented feature…

December 26, 2007

Another Christmas Day ...

“It sounds like a consumption ward in here”, said Tony as we sat around in the kitchen playing chess and eating cold meats and the Christmas chutney I’d bought ages ago at the WI market.

We were having a re-run of Christmas as Richard had the same bad cold that everyone seems to have caught this year and spent most of the evening in the front room saying things like, “I will never get well again”. Not even prawn crackers tempted him out to eat.

Eventually he gave in when he unpacked his new chess set and set about challenging us to something that was almost chess …

December 25, 2007

So This Is Christmas ...

In a flurry of packing and unpacking, with stress of moving and finishing work, last minute worries about deliveries and with coughs and colds a plenty Christmas is finally here…

December 24, 2007

I'm A Pink Toothbrush, You're A Diamond Toothbrush ...

After a night of wondering and an early morning start taking the kitchen apart the lost diamond earing has returned.

It was found stuck in the bristles of the toothbrush….

To celebrate we went out to The Falcon for Sunday lunch, earlobes glittering.

December 23, 2007

Diamonds Aren't Forever ...

It was only a few days ago I was writing that I thought people who did DIY so close to Christmas were a little odd.

Tonight I’ve been taking the kitchen apart to try to find a diamond earing given in Cuba and lost in a fit of pre-Christmas cleaning down a sink that didn’t have the plug in it.

Sadly it seems diamonds aren’t forever …

December 22, 2007

Tannenbaum ...

Martin Luther and Herbert Armstrong: Similarities and Dissimilarities

“Stars!” Martin Luther said suddenly, as he realized what he was seeing “Lights from Heaven to guide and comfort me, just as a star led the Wise Men to the stable that first Christmas. What a splendid theme for a sermon.” Martin Luther smiled up at the twinkling sky…Martin Luther looked around for a small tree he could take home for Christmas. He found a young fir tree, pulled up, and dragged it with him through the forest. At long last Martin Luther was safe at home. He quickly prepared the little fir tree, hoping to surprise his family…Everyone gasped at the sight of the little fir tree, for it was customary to hang Christmas trees upside-down from the ceiling beams and leave them undecorated. Yet, Martin Luther had placed this little tree upright in a pot, high on a table. The candles had been removed from the triangle shaped holder. Now, as the very first Christmas tree lights, they flickered from the tree’s delicate branches - just as the stars had flickered through the forest to guide Martin Luther” (Lieurance, Suzanne. The First Christmas Tree Lights. The Junto Society, 2002).

Our tree, newly bought to fit into the room with everything and everyone else, was festooned today with new decorations and the odd present or two under it.

None of this impressed Cherry who just found a new place to sleep …

December 21, 2007

No Travel Day ...

It’s been a real pleasure not to travel today.

The rest of the world seem to be passing us by as we site in the restaurant and watch them struggle past with last minute Christmas shopping.

All we have to do is walk home…

December 20, 2007

Run Out Of Steam ...

On a crisp clear day “Tangmere” stood waiting at platform 19 to pull a rake of 11 coaches down to Sherbourne for carols.

At the end of the platform we all stood trying to catch the eye of the driver for an invite onto the footplate but had to be content with the warmth from the boiler and the smell of Welsh steam coal.

I wish I’d be going with them but tonight a cat came to stay …

December 19, 2007

Cell ...

All day long I have been confined in this cell.

In part it’s the postman’s fault. I’m waiting on a final delivery and that has meant that I can’t afford to set foot out of the door.

At work I had the usual pre-Christmas stress of finishing things off (including some learning) which has meant that I couldn’t have any noise to keep me company and had to spend the day thinking.

Just one more day then I can relax …

December 18, 2007

Brains Loose Faggots ...

So, after twenty years of listening to and enjoying “Fairytale of New York” Radio 1 has decided to remove the offensive word “faggot”.

If you want to hear the song in full re-tune to Radio 2 where older listeners aren’t so offended and see the song for what it is, a timeless classic.

It is seven years ago today that Kirsty MacColl was killed. Her mother, Jean, writes this open letter at the start of another year fighting for justice :

Justice For Kirsty: latest news

I am very aware that this is the end of the 7th year since Kirsty’s death and the Mexicans are still shielding a man known to both the government and the judiciary. They must stop trying to find excuses to let him off the hook.

I am not asking for a jail sentence, simply an admission of guilt which seems to be beyond their powers or a new trial and full investigation with new witnesses. This latter seems unlikely. Too risky, perhaps for Gonzalez?

So, much as I don’t want it (and neither do they), the court of Human Rights seems the only solution. Perhaps Gonzalez should reflect on how his behaviour to escape blame has led to shaming his country. I have no time for the judiciary’s quandary. Thank you all for still being engaged in the fight as it starts its eighth year.

The book still has a last page empty for an acceptable resolution.

Christmas greetings and a peaceful and Happy New Year.

Jean

Read more about the fight for Justice for Kirsty and send the Mexican President a postcard for Christmas.

That bench in Soho Square has been empty too long.

December 17, 2007

The Parkys Over ...

When I was young hearing Harry Stoneham’s Parkinson theme was something special.

Late on a Saturday night the sound of big band and organ was the start of an hour or so with some of the great and good. Peter Cook and Dudley Moore, Orson Welles, Peter Sellers, Ali.

Parkinson has, it seems, always been there throughout the years.

Until, sadly, last night. Billy Connolly summed it for millions of us : “Don’t go!” Don’t go!”

December 16, 2007

Winter Wonderland ...

“It’s nice that it’s cold, it makes it more special”, said K.

I wasn’t so sure. Despite all the layers we were wearing the cold had driven us from the warmth of the fires cooking German sausage and suckling pig to the bar for gluehwein.

German markets seem to be everywhere this year and London’s Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park is one of the largest.

Back on the Tube I realised just how true their marketing slogan of the 1930s really was, “Where it is always warm and bright”- with the emphasis on the warm.

At Covent Garden we even managed to track down some tomato soup before heading home…

December 15, 2007

Presents, Presents Everywhere ...

There was a sense of anti-climax in London today.

In the favourite tourist places there was the usual crush of people and languages but most of the shops seemed empty of people but full of presents. People seem to be waiting until the last minute in the hope of that elusive bargain.

Even the Tokyo Diner had loads of spare seats as I settled down to a warming bowl of Chicken Katsu Don and rice.

Tonight, hands free from the bags of presents bought for birthdays and Christmas, we all met to celebrate James’ birthday.

Quote of the Day

Martin’s Mum first words to K : “Now I hope you will be looking after him”

December 14, 2007

The Match Boy ...

“Can’t we buy some matched to help him ?”, asked Joanne as we stood in the local museum next to the figurine of a boy selling matches.

With torn clothes and his feet bare he was a stark contrast to us, wrapped up warm against the cold outside.

Rather than having Boys Night we decided to go out to visit the museum which was having a Victorian Christmas evening.

Inside the museum we wander past the street scenes with the familiar shop names and old vehicles down to the Christmas market for liquorice and to stop to listen to the brass band playing carols.

Suddenly, with so many things from my past nearby Christmas feels very close.

December 13, 2007

The Return of the Six Foot Bavarian ...

There’s something that has been living in my loft for years - and now it’s free.

Wrapped up tightly in a cardboard box tied with string is a six foot Bavarian.

I’m hoping that this is a Christmas tree rather than some sleeping character from a Wagnerian opera or a long lost relative…

December 12, 2007

Gothic Winter ...

There’s something about this time of year that makes me want to read Victorian authors.

This year it’s Wilkie Collins and one of his lesser known (and I’m told now out of print) works “The Haunted Hotel”.

Collins, like his friend Charles Dickens, was very well aware of the effect of the Christmas market on his purse strings and once wrote to his publisher :

“an idea for a Christmas Story made a morning call in my brain the other day. The sort of book I propose would be a 5/- affair, running to about 130 pages - a sort of tragi-comedy in the form of a Story”

But despite the financial advantages of Christmas he was didn’t like it and wrote to Charles Ward in December 1860 :

“This awful Christmas time! I am using up my cheque-book - and am in daily expectation of fresh demands on it.”

My credit card bill arrived today - I know what Wilkie means …

December 11, 2007

Leslie Harpold ...

This week a year ago Leslie Harpold died.

To celebrate her life Lance Arthur has written a series of articles to remember her and share her wisdom with those who perhaps didn’t know her when she was alive. It’s not quite the same as the Leslie’s yearly advent calendar but it’s a great reminder of Leslie and what she held so dear.

Do yourself a favour and read these before you set any New Year’s resolutions.

December 10, 2007

Spaceboard ...

I’ve always laughed at people who end up doing major DIY projects in the weeks before Christmas.

Why undertake all the stress and mess of knocking down walls and digging up drains when there is all the excitement of Christmas to sort.

But the fact is I need storage space and the loft is the only place left. It’s not the only reason of course.

Living in an Edwardian house there’s only so much you can do to insulate yourself from the cold and the loft, whilst lagged, probably is one of the largest spaces where heat loss occurs and tonight is supposed to be cold.

So, tonight I have been researching all the ways you can insulate a loft (Space Board looks nice and simple) and wondering if it will all fit through the loft hatch and, more to the point, if I can still fit through it.

December 9, 2007

Mixing and Stirring ...

At the pub with all the family Sam had his best Rudolph suit on, complete with red flashing nose.

Back at the house we all took a turn stirring the pudding mix and making a wish before setting down to a birthday meal.

Quote of the Day

K’s Aunt to K : “So will you be a proper couple ?”
Me : “What’s a proper couple ?”
K’s Aunt : “Well babies of course ?”

No pressure then …

December 8, 2007

Round and Round ...

After shopping for tiles in what seemed like a monsoon and lunch by the river with the smell of woodsmoke drifting from the hearth we went to see Karen and give Alex his belated presents.

This year’s toy seems to be Scalextric and with two complete sets Alex and I set out to build Magny-Cours.

We managed to get most of the furniture out of the lounge but Karen stopped us moving the sofa and the TV so the course was a little more manky than Magny but we all had a go and some of us even managed to stay on the track.

December 7, 2007

No Tech Night ...

“No laptop”, said Martin sternly, “and no TV”.

So that’s how we ended up in the kitchen talking, listening to music and enjoying the odd beer which mellowed Martin and meant we watched Eurosport when we ran out of beer…

December 6, 2007

Adventageous ...

I was wished a Happy Advent today.

I guess it shows how secular our society has become that the idea of celebrating the period immediately before Christmas came as a surprise to me.

When I was young I can remember an Advent candle being lit which, perhaps, was due to the Lutheran side of my upbringing. Today the Late Advent Weekdays or December 17-24 are the final few shopping days before Christmas rather than a period to sing the Magnificat at Vespers in a Church dressed in Royal Purple.

Luckily the season of goodwill seems to be bringing some cheer to the world of project planning and a more advantageous period lies ahead.

December 5, 2007

Shoes : An Important Newsflash ...

All day long the Sky News helicopter has been flying around so here is some important news for everyone.

Don’t forget to put your shoes out tonight for Saint Nicholas.

Here’s hoping you don’t get any coal ..

December 4, 2007

Shopping Online ...

BBC NEWS | Business | Online shopping expected to soar

Credit card firms are predicting a rise of more than 50% in online shopping this Christmas, compared with 2006.

Shoppers will spend £5.6bn online this month - more than 10% of all plastic card spending

I think I came close to spending that today.

In the next few weeks as the boxes arrive this place will look like Postman Pat’s idea of heaven.

December 3, 2007

Two Very Slipped Discs ...

Just when is a resignation not a resignation ?

A week or so ago Paul Gray, the chairman of HM Revenue and Customs, resigned after it was found that discs containing the personal details of twenty five million people had been lost in the post.

Today we find that, at the request of his old boss Gus O’Donnell, he is back working at the Cabinet Office on the same pay.

This is apparently due to “contractural commitments” and could mean that he stays employed until he retires early next year.

Not so much falling on one’s sword, more falling on a feather bed.

December 2, 2007

Hide and Seek ...

It’s not everyday you loose your other half in a garden centre.

“Where are you ?”, said K as she called my mobile phone. I was looking for her by Santa’s Grotto having last seen her behind two rather larger ladies who, having their eyes on the free mince pies and mulled wine, meant I’d given her the slip by the gazebos.

Re-united (and with the world’s largest rubbish bag) we went to the Christmas Fair to eat mincepies and buckwheat pancakes,drink Glühwein and watch the Morris Men dance to the sound of the Stroh violin.

December 1, 2007

Shopping Frenzy ...

“I’m not coming into town again before Christmas”, said K as we fought our way into the Tube station.

Today in the West End was VIP shopping day with the roads closed and entertainment laid on to entice people to spend more and more in the shops.

With all the people on the streets hanging upside down from a hot air balloon seemed to be the fastest way along Regent’s Street …

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